When the closest friend is the naysayer

The worst thing about naysayers is that they will always find something negative to say about everything that you do. They love to speak evil of you even if you do something that deserves a standing ovation.

Thanks to the widespread use of social media, naysayers are nowadays more apparent than ever before. Back in the day, probably when our moms were teenagers, naysayers would be our neighbors and far-reaching relatives. You couldn’t always hear them talk bad about you. There were naysayers, but they did not affect you directly at all times.¬† Continue reading

don't have a girlfriend

I don’t have a girlfriend

“So, do you have a girlfriend?”

“Not really, I don’t.”

“How come?”

“I’ve never really found someone I like.”

“Really? You must have a long list of virtues that you look for in a girl.”

“Not really. In fact, I look for a simple, average girl. My expectations are simple.”

“Then how come you don’t have a girlfriend yet?”

“Do you really wanna know? After all, you’re a girl. And I don’t want to hurt your feelings.”

“How will why you don’t have a girlfriend will hurt my feelings? I don’t understand. Do you hate women?”

“I most certainly don’t, if anything, I respect them.”

“So, what’s the problem?” Continue reading